Dog Separation Anxiety Training

Bark Busters Home Dog Training's Guide to Separation Anxiety

You adore your dog—and your dog adores you. But if your dog panics, barks, destroys things, or soils the house every time you walk out the door, it may be more than a bad habit. It could be separation anxiety.

At Bark Busters, we’ve helped over one million dogs worldwide learn to feel safe, secure, and confident—even when home alone. Our proven, in-home dog training methods get to the root of the problem so you can restore peace in your household.

What Causes Separation Anxiety in Dogs?

 

Separation anxiety in dogs doesn’t have to have a single cause. It is generally the result of multiple factors that stem from a dog’s environment, behavior, and relationship with their owner. At Bark Busters, we believe that fully understanding your dog’s background and daily experiences at home is key to identifying the root of the problem.

Some dogs suffer from separation anxiety because they’ve never been taught it's okay to be alone. Others become anxious due to inconsistent leadership or confusion about their role at home.

Understanding the root cause is crucial for initiating practical separation anxiety training in dogs. Without it, you will always be treating the symptoms—not solving the issue. Common causes of dog separation anxiety include:

  • Lack of consistent, canine-style leadership
  • Learned behavior driven by fear or nervousness
  • Inconsistent conditioning by the owner
  • Unmet basic needs like food, security, and stimulation

Many well-meaning owners overindulge their dogs with affection but fail to provide structured leadership. When a dog believes it’s the one in charge, it can panic when its owner leaves without it. This confusion about roles leads to stress, worry, and destructive behaviors, especially in naturally fearful or anxious dogs.

Symptoms of Separation Anxiety in Dogs

Separation anxiety can cause intense distress when a dog is left alone. Look out for these common signs:

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Excessive Barking or Howling

Dogs may bark, whine, or howl persistently after you leave—often continuing for hours.

Destructive Behavior

Chewing, digging, or scratching at doors or windows are common.

Pacing

Some dogs walk in fixed patterns, like pacing back and forth or in circles.

An image of a dog who has had a toilet accident due to dog separation anxiety.

Accidental Soiling

Even house-trained dogs might urinate or defecate indoors when anxious.

Escape Attempts

Dogs may attempt to break out of crates, rooms, or even their own homes, sometimes injuring themselves in the process.

Drooling and Panting

Physical symptoms like drooling, panting, or salivating often point to anxiety.

An anxious dog scratched and damaged a bathroom door due to separation anxiety.

Self-Harming Behaviors

Some dogs excessively lick or chew themselves, leading to hair loss or wounds.

Clinginess

They follow you around constantly and get visibly anxious as you are prepared to leave.

Pre-Departure Anxiety

Dogs may start whining, pacing, or acting unsettled when they pick up on cues that you’re heading out.

How to Handle Separation Anxiety in Dogs

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Lead Like a Canine

Your dog pays close attention to every move you make. Inconsistent leadership contributes to anxiety, so it’s essential to demonstrate calm, consistent behavior they can follow.

Meet Their Basic Needs

Dogs need more than love. Make sure they have proper nutrition, a safe environment, mental enrichment, and exercise. Scatter feeding, crating, puzzle toys, and short structured play sessions can all help reduce anxious tendencies.

Practice Calm Separation

Start with brief periods in different rooms or short solo stints outdoors. Gradually build up your dog’s confidence in being alone and calmly correct signs of anxiety as they happen.

Desensitize Departure Cues

Change your routine to avoid triggering anxiety. Put on your shoes or grab your keys randomly throughout the day—and don’t go out! This helps your dog disconnect these actions to your absence.

Reinforce Leadership on Returns

Whenever you return home, don’t overlook hyper or demanding behavior. Calmly correct it to show that leaving and returning is no big deal. A true leader wouldn’t tolerate frantic greetings or attempts to dominate.

Use Targeted Training Scenarios

Correcting your dog after an incident unfortunately won’t help—it just adds to their confusion. Instead, work with a professional to set up moments where you can catch the behavior in the act and redirect it calmly and confidently.

Stay Consistent!

There’s no one-size-fits-all solution. Regardless of if your dog is fearful, assertive, or just confused, your consistency as a leader will make the biggest difference in progress—and you can always turn to your local Bark Busters trainer for personalized advice.

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What Helps Dogs with Separation Anxiety?

Best Toys for Dog Separation Training

Interactive toys and strategic playtime can go a long way in reducing your dog's anxiety. Here are some toys you can try with your dog:

  • Puzzle toys for mental stimulation and reward-based engagement
  • Durable chew toys that give your dog a safe outlet for their stress
  • Comfort toys, like soft plushies, for reassurance
  • Treat-dispensing toys to distract and reward
  • Scented toys that carry your scent to calm and comfort

Choosing the right toys can help make alone-time training less stressful and more manageable for both the dog and you.

Preventing Separation Anxiety in Puppies

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Early dog separation training will help your puppy grow into a confident adult who is comfortable being alone. Here are some tips to try now:

  • Create a secure area where your puppy can be left alone safely, free from toxic or chewable hazards.
  • Practice short, intentional separations multiple times a day; even moving to another room counts!
  • If your puppy cries, don’t immediately rush back. Waiting a bit helps them learn that being alone isn’t scary or permanent.

Teaching your puppy to be okay with separation now prevents more significant issues later, and a Bark Busters trainer can help with early training to stop separation anxiety before it starts.

Let Us Help Turn Anxiety into Confidence—One Home, One Dog at a Time

Separation anxiety doesn’t have to define you or your dog's life, and you certainly don’t have to go through this alone.

With consistent leadership and proven dog training techniques, you won’t just manage the separation anxiety symptoms—you’ll build trust, resilience, and lasting peace of mind for both you and your dog. You both deserve that.

Searching for separation anxiety dog training near me? Bark Busters is excited to bring you expert help right to your home—where your dog feels safest and learns best. Reach out to us today, and let us help strengthen your bond and relationship with your dog.

 

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We reached out to Bark Busters for help with our Frenchie, Winston, who struggles with reactivity and a bit of separation anxiety. Working with Amanda Adams has been an absolute game changer!

From the very first session, Amanda made us feel supported and confident. She took the time to really understand Winston’s triggers and gave us practical, easy-to-follow tools that made a difference almost immediately. Winston has become noticeably calmer on walks, and we’ve seen huge improvements in how he handles new situations and being on his own.

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Bark Busters’ in home training has been tremendously effective in helping us manage our seven year old dog’s separation anxiety. We now understand the reasons for Sophie’s barking, and can better manage and anticipate situations that trigger her fear. Natalie is extremely personable and professional, and she has been spot-on in identifying problem issues with our Cavachon.

She is firm and direct, yet compassionate and warm. We are so grateful for how Natalie has helped us have Sophie greet people at the door, and greet other dogs on our walks. Reintroducing the crate also did a lot to help Sophie settle into her own space of comfort.

We recommend Bark Busters without reservation, and wish we had known enough to seek their help much sooner!
We are so happy with Bark Busters and especially our trainer Kayla! She has been so great. Full of information and techniques and very encouraging to both my husband and I and our dog. We have a Bernese who definitely struggled with certain behaviors and after just a couple of weeks we are already seeing an improvement in him. We couldn’t believe it!! Kayla is wonderful, so knowledgeable and supportive. I highly recommend!!
I can’t say enough good things about Erin Miller at Bark Busters! My Rottweiler, Cerberus, was a handful — lunging, nipping, reactive, and basically running the house. I was at my wits’ end before working with Erin. From the very first session, she helped me understand why Cerberus was acting out and gave me clear, practical tools to change his behavior. The transformation has been incredible! He’s now calm, responsive, and respectful — a totally different dog. Erin’s calm, confident approach made all the difference, and she genuinely cares about both the dog and the owner. I finally feel in control and connected with my dog in a way I never thought possible. If you’re struggling with your pup’s behavior, don’t hesitate — Erin is the real deal!
Extremely clear and comprehensive instructions that gave instant results. Feeling confident moving forward.
Very thorough and personalized for both our needs and our dog. Easy to understand and follow instructions.
Sharon has been absolutely amazing to work with! My dog, Pretzel, is scared to walk on hard surfaces — something we’ve struggled with for years. Sharon has shown me patient, effective ways to help Pretzel gain confidence walking on our hardwood floors, and we’ve already made incredible progress. What really sets Sharon apart is how she helps me think differently. She’s taught me to see things from Pretzel’s perspective and to truly understand what’s going on in her head — it’s like learning to speak her (dog) language. I had worked with another trainer a few years ago, but it wasn’t nearly as effective as Sharon’s approach. She’s kind, patient (with both me and Pretzel!), and always quick to answer questions by text or call. I’m so grateful for her guidance and can’t wait to continue working with her!
Was super patient! Let my mom and I ask all kinds of questions and never seemed to change his attitude. Was very good at calling us out for little things we should change while teaching us certain training techniques. Overall very excellent experience.
If you are considering hiring Johnny, look no further, I promise it will be the BEST DECISION you will ever make for you & your furry family member! We found Johnny looking for a dog trainer to work with our 2 German Shepherd rescues in need of leash training due to their size/strength (90 lbs & 105 lbs) as well as in home obedience to improve their adoptability. After extensive research for a behavioral trainer with rescue dog experience, we hired Johnny based on his reviews alone! Johnny not disappoint, he far exceeded our expectations in training both GSDs, their foster parents & US! I can honestly say, with a decade of experience working with dog trainers, that Johnny is by far THE BEST! His extensive knowledge in dog psychology/ behavior & simple replicable training methods combined with his genuine love for dogs & his demeanor around them, Johnny possesses something TRULY SPECIAL that can NOT be taught. The dogs know it & seeing how they respond to his training techniques is like MAGIC happening! Our 2 GSDs both knew several commands prior to rescue, it was clear they would respond well to training but we did not expect them to light up when Johnny arrived! Both dogs completed their obedience checklist & our male GSD quickly became the King of “Place” always the 1st on his cot! Leash training to eliminate pulling was challenging at first due to their excitability of all new sights/smells as well as new found strength in recovery BUT with Johnny’s persistence testing various handling gear the Figure 8 proved to the be solution. They responded so well to Johnny working with the Figure 8 lead, they were soon walking next to any handler at any pace fast or slow!! Plus, ultimately, for dog training to be successful, it is just as much training the humans to practice consistently after Johnny leaves as it is about training the dogs. That is where Johnny is in a league of his own… He is just as incredible training the humans as the dogs! The foster mom, who has fostered close to 100 dogs & her husband was only involved with the family dogs & they had never worked with a dog trainer. After just 1 SESSION, the foster parents were not only believers in training BUT said it was life changing & are excited about practicing with ALL the dogs. The foster dad even talks about Johnny’s training with everyone they know & now helps with all the foster dogs too! Our 2 GSDs are now adopted & thriving because of Johnny’s training & their transferrable lifetime training contract. Johnny is now our #1 trainer of choice for all of our rescue pups. The PROOF of Johnny’s professionalism & ability to connect/train both dogs & humans alike is evident in the success of our 2 rescue GSDs & their foster parents’ transformation!
Holly and Scott with BarkBusters are absolutely incredible! When I put a deposit down on my puppy, Arlo, at just six days old, my next call was to Holly. She spent nearly two hours on the phone walking me through their philosophy, methods, and what to expect, and immediately made me feel confident about bringing my puppy home. Before Arlo even came home, Holly came to our house to make sure we had everything ready. Thanks to her detailed preparation and guidance, I had Arlo crate trained on day one, he is calm and respectful in the house, we have not struggle AT ALL with jumping up or puppy biting using Holly’s strategies and he hasn’t had a single potty accident. His first day home was mellow, smooth, and stress-free—and I know that’s because of Holly’s support. Our second session (we got to meet Scott!) they reinforced everything we were doing right and gave us simple, practical exercises to build trust and strengthen our bond. I’ve never raised a puppy before, and they’ve made me feel completely confident every step of the way. I’m so grateful to them for setting Arlo (and me!) up for success! And it is an enormous weight lifted to know we will have Holly and Scott’s support for any issues that arise for Arlo’s entire life!
We had a small sized boxer before kids and loved her so much. After she passed and COVID hit we decided to get 2 boxers puppies since we would have the time to train them. It was great in the first year and then they started to overpower us with muscle and boxing like play and especially with young kids. I started to notice they were acting like they were more in charge and I felt desperate after some nipping behavior. Michael from Bark Busters truly has helped me changed the tone in our house. I was amazed at how simple the training is to follow and receptive our dogs were after just a few exercises. I have had tears of joy watching the shift in our relationship with the dogs! Thank you from the bottom of the McGillis Family hearts.
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Have now had 3 sessions with Holly and they have been so helpful! She has talked and walked us through ways to guide our puppy's learning, and to do it with positive reinforcement not treats. He already walks better on a leash, he is calmer when we have guests, and so much more. I love the Bark Buster approach to teaching and learning. Thanks Holly!
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I have received such great guidance with my new puppy. He is rather large and I have never trained a dog before I have learned how to handle him when he doesn’t want to listen as well as in some situations that were challenging for me. The trainer that I have is extremely knowledgeable and knows how to handle dogs quite easily; it is definitely a gift! I am so grateful that I learned about Bark Busters ! My trainer is eager to share information and it is so obvious that he wants the best for my dog and I.

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About 6 months ago, I adopted a dog from our local rescue. He was 4-years-old, so I figured we would have NONE of the normal puppy behaviors. Boy was I wrong! I watched every video, read every article on how to overcome separation anxiety, peeing when a new guest came over, and aggression. And nothing I did worked. I mean nothing. I hired one trainer who believes in treat training. The only problem was, I didn't always have a treat with me. I was ready to give up, but had fallen in love with Patches, so failure was not an option.

Then I met Bonnie and our whole world changed. Our relationship changed. I stopped screaming "No" at every bad behavior. And I learned to communicate with Patches in a way he understood. Almost overnight, he started listening. At first I thought it was too good to be true. But by practicing the exercises she gave us for about 10 minutes each day, he was no longer afraid. Of guests, other dogs or my leaving.

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